tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190193416511800956.post9420108431056170..comments2010-11-19T07:46:22.336-08:00Comments on Life After 30: Mr. Urban CowboyJenn Rhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17046933001067673215noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190193416511800956.post-14811639209587970532010-01-21T04:08:23.957-08:002010-01-21T04:08:23.957-08:00Great idea! Makes perfect sense to keep the discus...Great idea! Makes perfect sense to keep the discussion onlin, since that's how you met.beckiwithanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18380322646544580050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190193416511800956.post-32077746604136194992010-01-20T20:40:24.734-08:002010-01-20T20:40:24.734-08:00I talked to a good friend at work, who also talked...I talked to a good friend at work, who also talked to her fiancee (I'm all about the input). And they both suggested an email, since it all started online. So I'll probably do that. I haven't heard from him, so perhaps he picked up on my cues too.Jenn Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17046933001067673215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2190193416511800956.post-19987939828457503392010-01-20T15:45:24.263-08:002010-01-20T15:45:24.263-08:00Oh my. I don't blame you for taking a pass on ...Oh my. I don't blame you for taking a pass on another date. Hopefully he will find a SASSy girl through his cowboy hobby...<br /><br />Yes, I think a hug was appropriate, since he was a nice guy. I also think, though, that just saying, "I had a good time, but I'm not interested" is valid... might be embarrassing, but at least not as drawn out as avoiding his calls.<br /><br />I've tried both ways -- avoiding calls and just saying I'm not interested -- and I prefer the more awkward tell-it-like-it-is, because then if you run into the guy later on there's none of that weird "Hey, I've called you a few times but didn't hear back from you..." stuff.beckiwithanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18380322646544580050noreply@blogger.com